Tips for Pick-Up Artist
There are guys that the first thing they want to do when they meet a woman is show her that they understand GAME.
There they'll start talking about evolution, alpha males, how women will always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know women are more intimate than guys etc.
This time, I'll refer to that as nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
Let me explain why, and also give you an idea of what to do instead.
Generally, as what I have learn in pick-up, this kind of things will make a very poor conversation topics with women. Especially hot ones.
This might work with the social anthropologist, but not to a woman that any man in his right mind would be attracted to,
Now there are a few major things wrong with this strategy:
(Oh BTW - if you do happen to meet a girl that likes this kind of stuff, by all means talk about it, I'm just saying it should not be used as an strategy for attraction for most of the female population)
1. This will make a woman on the defensive. It's exactly like one country revealing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which not only is a big turn off, but also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. Chances are, the woman's awareness level is about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my newsletters.
This is a concept called "Stepped Awareness".
Have you ever tried played a song you liked for a friend and they just didn't get it?
It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
To a woman who spends the most of her time thinking about new shoes, celebrities and her problems with her boss, your talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to girls in the club" it's just too weird and alien for her.
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot woman. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without embarrassment!
3. To a woman that does understand it; you talking about it make it seem like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women tend to also like women, capable of open relationships, and generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating also get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's a big revelation!
So the moment you do it, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will instantly disqualify you.
So here's what you should do...
Well - one of the most powerful techniques I use is this:
**Understand society's programming, understand a woman's specific programming, and appear to be under the exact same programming.**
Keep your knowledge of reality to yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything great, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum)
You're going to see a big change in your game.
There they'll start talking about evolution, alpha males, how women will always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know women are more intimate than guys etc.
This time, I'll refer to that as nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
Let me explain why, and also give you an idea of what to do instead.
Generally, as what I have learn in pick-up, this kind of things will make a very poor conversation topics with women. Especially hot ones.
This might work with the social anthropologist, but not to a woman that any man in his right mind would be attracted to,
Now there are a few major things wrong with this strategy:
(Oh BTW - if you do happen to meet a girl that likes this kind of stuff, by all means talk about it, I'm just saying it should not be used as an strategy for attraction for most of the female population)
1. This will make a woman on the defensive. It's exactly like one country revealing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which not only is a big turn off, but also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. Chances are, the woman's awareness level is about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my newsletters.
This is a concept called "Stepped Awareness".
Have you ever tried played a song you liked for a friend and they just didn't get it?
It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
To a woman who spends the most of her time thinking about new shoes, celebrities and her problems with her boss, your talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to girls in the club" it's just too weird and alien for her.
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot woman. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without embarrassment!
3. To a woman that does understand it; you talking about it make it seem like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women tend to also like women, capable of open relationships, and generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating also get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's a big revelation!
So the moment you do it, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will instantly disqualify you.
So here's what you should do...
Well - one of the most powerful techniques I use is this:
**Understand society's programming, understand a woman's specific programming, and appear to be under the exact same programming.**
Keep your knowledge of reality to yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything great, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum)
You're going to see a big change in your game.
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