Hey guys! Let me share with you what my synopsis and predictions about the recent episode of the Mystery's the Pick-Up Artist which was aired on VH1 a few weeks ago.
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Today I'd like to introduce a concept about SHAPING.
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Sometimes fast lays don't become relationships.
With a fast pick-up this comes a big problem.
As an expert on fast pick-ups I agree to that.
You see, even though guys that can pull these off enjoy not only success with women straight out of a fantasy world and typically get girls obsessed with them but that problem can't be avoided.
Sometimes a fast pick-up becomes a one-night stand, and never converts into a relationship.
Well fine for those who has that intention.
But most of times, you DO want to see the girl again - or possibly start a relationship with her.
Here's something you might not already know - EVERY girl I have slept with in the past 2 years has been under 4 hours.
And EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. wanted to see me again...
Hey, I'm not saying this brag.
The reason why I'm saying this is so that you can realize the immense amount of value I give to you as a client of mine, and to prove a very important point:
"Potential to start a relationship with a girl has NOTHING to do with how fast you sleep with her”
There are three major keys on how to have a continuing intimate relationship with a girl...
And I feel it's time to reveal a few myths about this.
3 Myths about Fast Pick Ups
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MYTH #1: You must "build comfort" with a girl for 7+ hours before sleeping with her.
As I said, sleeping with a girl has nothing to do with the amount of time you spend with her
In fact, the secret lies in what you do AFTER you sleep with her. And it has almost NOTHING to do with anything you do before you sleep with her
I have got it down to an exact science. A series of actions and behaviors that guarantee you that she will not only see you again, but also be borderline obsessed with you...
Just bring out the natural behaviors that a person can learn in less than five minutes. Nothing fancy, no routines or lines....
Would you like to know the REALITY of this situation?
The reality is some of the hottest, most intelligent women I have dated LOVED the excitement of getting physical really fast.
It's straight out of the movies, and very few guys can pull it off skillfully.
MYTH #2: You need to reassure the girl that you will see her again before sleeping with her.
Many guys try this... they imply that the girl is "relationship material" or that he definitely wants to see her again.
Man... what a way to kill intrigue right off the bat...
Guys do this and tend to come on wayyyy to strong. They appear too interested, too needy, to desperate to get a girlfriend.
But at the same time you should NEVER imply that it's a one night stand, or that you're just interested in bed.
This isn't very effective either...
MYTH #3: You have to be great in bed the first time you sleep with a girl.
One of my good friends, Julian, who is admittedly bad in bed and only lasts for about 3 minutes but converts girls like *CRAZY*.
The point is, although he is NOT good in bed (his choice), but STILL gets girls so crazy about him, they won't leave him alone.... (so he ends up playing Gears of War on his XBox360 while they sit there naked, watching him.)
So you may be thinking...
"BUT VIN, THIS IS TOO ADVANCED, I STILL HAVE
PROBLEMS PICKING UP AND SLEEPING WITH HER!"
I understand.
But listen. This is important information that you're going to need soon.
And let's be honest - when you DO start sleeping with girls - wouldn't you rather have the choice to see them again or not?
That is what my point is.
